LIVING REAL ALOHA BLOG

Because the only honest place to begin is the place you’re actually standing.

I’m starting this series from the exact middle of my life — not the polished version. Not the “all cleaned up and figured out” version. Just the real one.

The one where caregiving still echoes in familiar places.
Where g...

This past month, I’ve been reflecting on something powerful: my tribe.

It started in August, right after we celebrated my mom’s life one year after her passing. I felt a shift — almost like her spirit was nudging me to reconnect, to show up, to be with the women who make me feel most alive.

And so...

A year of grief, truth, unexpected grace, and returning to myself.

I didn’t know what this year would look like — I only knew it would hurt.

There’s a kind of silence that shows up when someone you love is gone. Not just in the room, but in your bones. I’ve learned that grief isn’t linear, polite,...