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When Grief Arrives in the Middle of the Holidays boundaries capacity emotional honesty family expectations grief holidays presence over performance Dec 09, 2025

Some years, the holidays arrive with sparkle and ease. Some years, they arrive with a weight you didn’t plan for.

This year, mine arrived quietly — and with loss.

My childhood friend Matthew died on December 4.
We met in third grade — two kids who understood each other long before either of us real...

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